The Isreili Terrorism Truth

*image from 3agabi blog

As Arabs, it’s hard to explain the Israeli terrorism in Palestine in a way the western world can understand & that gives the chance to western people to beat us in a conversation about that matter, cuz they learned how to discuss & arrange their thoughts no matter if it’s the truth or not.
We have this serious issue about how to talk, put our thoughts in points then win a discussion.
In my old Journal I put some pictures of what’s heppening in Lebanon specially for women & kids, I found this reply after from someone called himself Warren Main

First off you are not brave if you are spouting the same things as your friends and family are spouting.
Instead of trying to destroy Israel why not accept it as a free and independent country unlike all the muslim countries in the mideast. If you were to stop trying to kill Israel and its people you would have more time to create jobs for your people. you might even learn to live in peace. In America Jews and muslims can live side by side and be good neighbors why not in the middle east?
Where were the Saudies asking for a stop in the fighting when your people were shelling isreal and blowing themselves up in Baghdad. Islam will not stop killing until all Jews and Christians are dead and you can live out your primitive lives like they did in the 12th century. Even if no Jew lived in what we call Israel, your holy leaders would still hate them as well as all Americans. Why? Because America mean Freedom. Muslims cannot live in a free country they have to have someone else tell them what to do and when to do it. There is no freedom of art, thought or religion in any muslim country. Even in Afganistan who we went in and got rid of the Talaban at great cost to the USA, the people want the Morality police back. Why do you feel you need to have other people tell you what to wear and when to pray. If I want to pray to your God or mine I can do it any time I want and I can say what ever is on my mind to God.
Stop blaming Jews and Christians for your troubles put the blame on your relious leaders. Think about it without Jews and Christians to hate you have nothing else. Make your leaders give you something else and hope for the future. If you do live in the United States and you hate us so much why don’t you and all your fanitical friends go back to your sand box and leave us alone.
Warren Main
Denver Colorado USA

Well.. A typical American…..I have a friend ( Katjusha ) of my journal who keeps reading it (in fact he was the only one who kept following it till I ended it lately) that guy is Croatian, I mean he lives in Europe & as anyone can assume he gets his knowledge from almost the same sources that Mr.Warren gets his from.
Katjusha replied Mr.Warren & his reply was amazing cuz I never knew that there’s someone ouside the Arab world have this clear idea about the situation, explaining it si simple in a way the average Western guy can understand & even much more than I know about it.
So as a THANK YOU, I decided to put his reply in here maybe it help other to understand or explain the Israeli terrorism ( I didn’t change a word in his reply ).

dar mr. warrenyou obviously don’t know or don’t want to know what is happening in
middle east. let me explain in simple way which can be understood by
americans like you.

imagine a situation that you have a 3 bedroom house and decided to rent
one room. so beside your family there is a new member living in one of
your rooms. that person is nice and polite, and of course pays the
rent. after few months that person invites relatives to live with him
and they are all nice and polite but you feel kind of unpleasant
(1880-1940)

then subtenant decides to take the room, bathroom, kitchen and living
room into its own possession (1948). you see that subtenant is crazy
and call your neighbours to help you kick him out of your house, but
subtenant gets help from abroad and becomes even stronger. by more
power he kicks your grandmother from one of the rooms but keeps her
belongings and of course takes her room as well. you take thim matter
to court (UN) which decides that you and your subtenant should live
side by side becase his and yours ancestors lived in that area some
2500 years ago.

you wait a while, and then decide to take the matter into your own
hands by atempting to take back what is yours (1967). but the subtenant
now has a coalition with mafia (USA) who got him the weapons and
technology. with all that power he takes the whole house and moves your
family to a backyard and to neighbouring yard. you again take the
matter to court (UN) which this time decides in your favour but the
subtenant doesnt bother to even listen the verdict of the court.
instead he calls all of his relatives to come to live in your house
which is now fully ocupied (although such action is not allowed by
geneva convenction of human rights in war time)

you try to make the world to listen to you, but the subtenant has media
at his side, you wait 10-20 years but nothing happen. your children are
being raised in basements and crowded rooms of your neighbours house ……. you become pesimistic and frustrated. then you decide to take
drastic measures like throwing a stone at your subtenant. but your
subtenant is very powerful by now and at every stone thrown at him he
reponds with bazooka rocket.

decades have passed, your family forgot how your house looks like from
inside. from time to time you throw a stone at the subtenant but now he
doesnt only shoot bazook rocket at you, now he takes a half of
neighbours house and backyard, destroys other half of the neighbours
house and kills few members of your family (1982). he lives in that
ocupied area of neighbouring house for next 20 years and then decides
to pull back knowing that the rest of your family is very weak. he
hopes that you and your family are now done with asking for your house
back.and what do you do? you cant go in your house, subtenant watches all
your moves, he even doesnt give you the right to walk freely without
permits. your children have no future and the only sure thing is tha
hate toward subtenant. some of youths who are so desperate decide to
take a bomb into one of the rooms but after every bomb your subtenant
redecorates the room. you see your subtenant every day and he is your
ocupator.

then you say ok (1991), lets split the house as it was split by court
(UN)decision in 1948, but subtenant must leave the part of house which
belongs to you. subtenant agrees but does very little about it, and
with many demands which you must obey in advance. since 1991 to this
date, you cant enter your part of the devided house.

that is israeli justice.

so mr. warren, dont blame islam for wars in middle east. it’s not islam
who wants to destroy christianity and judaism. as christian i’m not
even a bit threatened by islam. the problem is in imperialistic minds
of some western powers and israel. leave this people alone, and there
wont be any 911 problems and terrorists. after all majority of those
¨terrorists˝ were financed and suported by your country

….. financed and suported by your country when your country needed
them. so first take the garbage from your yard and then criticise on
your neighbours.

katjusha
zagreb, croatia

Technorati Tags: Israel, Plaestine

Four Wives…..

Well, Well, Well…

This’s one of the topics that I didn’t want to talk about, because I don’t have all the Tools that’ll help me to clear the misunderstanding about it, but anyway I’ll try to do my best.
While surfing, “I found comments about the four wives in Islam” issue, most those comments are offensive, even if someone is asking about it usually it looks like an insult!!

In Yahoo Answers:

Q. Why did Michael Jackson convert to Islam?

A. He wants to have lot of chil… i mean wife to sleep with!!!1

Interesting answer of an Ignorant…

I’m a woman & I can talk about the “four wives issue” so please muslim brothers & sister correct me if I’m wrong
Every woman needs her man for herself but she forgets something very important….
Men think about sexual desire more than women, usually when a man not satisfied with his wife , he searches for a solution, most men in the west cheating on their wives.
So, here’s one of the reasons that Islam gave the right for ment to marry nother, instead of cheating in (one-wife religions).

A man that loves his wife & there’s uncurable physical problems with her prevents her from having babies…
In the western world they adopt children & change their names, in Islam it’s a very good thing to take care of an orphan child but they can’t give him/her their names, cuz it’s the kid’s right to keep his parent’s name, so in this case the man may need to marry another & keep his wife, cuz it’s really offensive to devorce her just because she can’t be a mother, as it’s all God’s willing.

A man who’s not comfortable with his wife, they’re fighting all the time, but he got children from her….
In this case it’s better for their children to stay together, but the man can marry another, while in western world they get devorced & maybe prevets the other side from seeing childre, which cause serious problems with children later, usually muslim women don’t think that much about getting married again so it’s ok with her.

In fact those were only three reasons, but I’m sure there’s much more, for example, women count is increasing comparing to men’s count, that means women won’t find enough men to get married to & Islam doesn’t incourage sex outside marriage ( all religions doesn’t incourage that too ), so here’s a solution & that solution is made by God.

Some are asking, why women don’t have that right too…
I’ll answer that with two answers:
1st: A reason related to (Ikhtelat Elansab), well I don’t know the right translation for it, if someone knows please add it in a reply, but it means in a childish way: so she won’t get mixed & never knows the real father..

2nd: The nature of women, as they like to stay with one women only, so it’s not a sexual desire for her.

Well I have to talk about the most important notes about this issue:
It’s about treating every woman equaly, a man who marry more than a woman must treat them equaly, this’s a condition mentioned in the holy Quraan

Allah said:
“And if you fear that you cannot act equitably towards
orphans, then marry such women as seem good to you, two and
three and four; but if you fear that you will not do justice
(between them), then (marry) only one or what your right hands
possess; this is more proper, that you may not deviate from the
right course.” An-nisa (women) Surah, Ayah 004.003

& it was mentioned that a man won’t be able to do that, so it’s almost not possible to do that, cuz the man must treat them both the same, spend the same money on them & buy them the same kind of stuff & make them live in an equal homes & in everything he must be fair with them, as I said it’s almost impossible.
So that explains that most the men who’re married to more than a woman without being equal to them are doing a sin cuz they disobey Allah.

The other point is the man must ask the first wife, if she agrees about his marriage & give her the choice to go on with him & accept the other wife or if she wants devorce she has the right to get it, that means that any man can’t keep her without her by force & the ones who do that are sinners too.

The Ayah I mentioned above was from An-nisa (women) Surah, as you can see it’s a surah specially talking about women but there’s no surah for men, in this surah was mentioned the rights for women & how to deal with them fairly, so no one can take their rights from them.

The whole issue in here shows that Islam never been unfair & the four wives issue is so limited by rules which make it almost impossible to be done, it’s a point of view of a moderate muslim woman as much as she understands her religion.
I can add too that some women prefere to go & engage another to her husband by her choice & some prefere to be the second wife.
Women won’t accept cheating from their husbands & they rather to know with whome he’s so they accept his marriage, some accept his marriage & then feel jailous so they make problems & claim lies about their husbands.
most women are liars, they use lie to help the benifits they target to.

For anyone who’s interested to read
Here’s a link to a translation for the Holy Qur’an.

Najad.. a simple man

OK… here’s my last discovery.

Mahmoud Ahmady Najad, the president of Islamic Republic Of Iran has a personal website, where he writes personaly & where anyone can reply his posts & discuss anything.
Click Here
Though many don’t like his way specially the U.S., as they’re considering him their biggest enemy after Saddam (that means he’s #1 in the U.S. enemies List), but I respect that simple man with all his modesty ( it’s almost not found in the recent muslim leaders) & braveness & I think that braveheart is really full of faith that he’s right.
Well, be carful America when dealing with such a man.

Addicted to blogs :)

In my last post, brother Abu Shajj said:

I have noticed… you have alot of blogs I have counted about 3.

I used to have many blogs not only 3 , I been addicted to bloging since I discoverd it & wanted to find a service that satisfy me, so I tried most the known bloging services, but that doesn’t mean that I got a brilliant mind, it’s just thoughts in my mind, and because I don’t have someone to talk to (except my husband who doesn’t like to waste his time to listen to my stupid thoughts ).
Now I stopped bloging in most of them even the one that targeted ladies (just two days ago I ended it as ladies were not interested), but I just keep them as they’re mine & to remember that experience.
I’m now bloging in the arabic one (Indifferent space) because it’s an indifferent Self-criticism for the Egyptian community & here where it’ll be my gate to the Islamic world & In shaa Allah I’ll keep updating.

Also Abu Shajj asked:

How do you keep up with it all.

Well, I don’t have anything to do in my life except taking care of my home & husband (I don’t have much to do cuz there’s no babies) & I don’t have a job anymore.
And my husband gave me my own pc ( which isn’t usual in here) just because I like to discover new things & ofcourse I won’t bother him when he’s using his pc too
Alhamdulellah, I still find something to talk about & sometimes I feel that I’m talking nonesense cuz I’m not following the news all the time, I don’t have an orgnized mind & I don’t have a good way to express my thoughts, still trying to solve this problem.

thank you brother Abu Shajj.

How do you know?

It’s difficult for (Danish) to understand how a prophet can have such an impact on the normal person’s life, and that he is a role model for many (normal) people.

This
was a comment in a TV talk show which & it explains exactly why
muslims are suffering from the big misunderstanding arround the world,
because It’s difficult for (The World) to understand how Islam can have such an impact on the normal person’s life, and that he is a role model for many (normal) people.

Most
other religions’ practices don’t get outside the religious building
(the church) for example, while Islamc practices got nothing to do with
the mosque except for prayers, even prayers can be done in any place.
In
Islam there’s an answer for every question you’ll ask in your life,
laws & all what’s related to life arrangements are already exist in
the Holy Qur’an & Sunnah ( the speaches of prophet Muhammad ).

Yes,
people outside there can’t imagine how much Islam is so important to us
& involved in every little detail in muslims life, cuz they
abandoned their religions a long time ago, as their ego refuses to
involve anyone in their lives, even if it was God.

Because:

Vanity is the devil’s favourite sin

Devil’s Advocate movie

Yet.. Still Hope

I used to hear the European Program in Radio Cairo FM, I found this new program “So close, no matter how far…” , it was a strange program because this was the English service which didn’t programs talking about religion in it’s programs map.
I listened & was surprised with that young man’s voice Masha’ Allah, seems to be cultured & talking proudly about Islam & answering listener’s Questions, he called Moez Masoud.
Today, I remembered him after watching an Islamic TV channel & found him in it, it was a surprise, because if I saw him in the streets I won’t imagine how religious he is.
I wanted to show you this to tell you that… in spite of everything I don’t like about Muslim-Arabs lately, still there’s a candle light in the end of the dark tunnel.

Moez Masoud was brought up in the American schools of Kuwait and Egypt as a 4.0 GPA student until he took up a lifestyle of excessive partying the kind that took the lives of three of his close friends. After facing two near-death experiences himself, his previously nonchalant, or even rebellious attitude towards religion changed drastically as his heart opened up to the Qur’an and his soul was overcome by God’s presence. He began to ponder the Qur’an’s meanings, and was fascinated by the high he would get upon feeling that his Maker was talking to him. Alongside, he began to share his tremendous experience with those around him, and was soon after regularly invited to speak about his new-found realizations.

Upon graduating from University, Moez was invited to carry out night (taraweeh) prayers one Ramadan in the US. When he returned to Cairo, he founded TGF, a successful advertising agency. A year later, the ART Arab Radio & Television- contacted him and that was the start of his TV debut success, Parables in the Qur’an. Since then, he has been around countries like the US, Malaysia, and the UK as an honorary guest giving talks, leading workshops and youth camps, as well as making TV & radio show appearances. Throughout, he has tried to remind himself and others that the Prophet Muhammad – upon whom be God’s blessings and peace – invites humanity to a relationship with God that is founded upon our love for Him, and that earning His love is the human being’s greatest success.

Currently a student of Islamic sciences under renowned traditional scholars, Moez also works as an advertising freelancer in Egypt where he lives with his wife and son. His most recent TV show, Stairway to Paradise, airs worldwide on ART international and Iqraa.

* the PIO was taken from his personal website
* Read an interview with him

Muslim woman in the Arab world (Part 1)

I’m not finished with discovering buslim blogs yet, I assume that I won’t be able to read them all, because there’s more everyday.
Besmellah Masha’Allah

I noticed that the muslim world, outside the the middile-east or let’s say outside the Arab world, is totally different from us in here, they gained the benifit of being muslims, plus living there that’s affected the way they think, most of them are converted muslims & returned ones.

Lately I was reading an online arabic youth magazine called (20at), there was that article asking girls if they want to work as a veild model!!
The answers were more funny as a lot agreed & ready to do that, I’m not taling in here about a show for Islamic costums.

 

They say:
I’ll wear hijab after getting married…
Well, I didn’t take off my hijab in my marriage
I was better than others

What’s the Problem with us in the Arab world??
The problem is clear to me, people in here think (deep iside their hearts & minds), that because they were born as muslims so it’s granted to go to heaven!! so they stopped doing anything to deserve that heaven, & when they do something (haram) they say: Ok, later we’ll do (Isteghfar) & God will accept , as God is (Ghafour , Raheem)!!

When you ask a muslim woman: When are you going to wear hijab (veil)?
Usually she’ll answer: When I’m convenced!!!!!
This’s the most polite answer you can get,,
Some say it’s a matter of choice & I’m free to wear & do whatever I want & I don’t need your advices!!!!

You can see veiled women in the streets,, many of them, but let’s see…
I swear that I saw one of the veiled girls wearing a short blouse with a very tight jeans, when she tends I managed to see hair waist skin.
Another one wearing abaya (which is a long dress), but her legs appearing fron the side till the knees!!!

Young girls now love to look just like Britney & Shakira!! They clothes they wear & the look they look like & even the way they talk & act, it’s no problem for them to attract attention.
They love to look like the Lebanese artests (as you know Lebanon isn’t an Islamic country

It bothers me, when I see a girl wering hijab sometimes & taking it off another, for nonsense reasons.
I mean Hijab is still exist & maybe more than ever, but muslims women don’t have the Islamic manners, they lie, they yall loud, they curse, they don’t treat their husbands well, they cheat, they act like typical human beings but not typical muslims.

Well, this’s gonna be harsh, now you can find girlfriends & boyfriends, muslims dating & you can imagine all the meaning of these words in the western world & apply it in here, there’s even kissing & huging in streets, but still isn’t that public yet Alhamdulellah.
It’s normal now to read a blog for a girl telling about her affairs & replies to her telling you’re doing great & way to go & such nonsense answers encourageing her to do more & tell more, there’s gays & lisbians too & they’re PROUD!!!!! Well that’s hell on earth.

The arabian girls are cracked, specially the Egyptian ones,, but it’s more more critical in the gulf, it’s very clear the United Arab Emirates for example, even women who wear Abaya & a scarf usually show a part of the harir, they say they wear that cuz it’s their national costume.

Gulf girls/women
They covered their faces & showed their hair !!!

New hijab ideas with a lot of makeup!!!
The new trend in the arab-muslim world

All that I mentioned above does not mean that there’s no existance of good muslim women, but the worst is appearing more than the good & people can’t understand that they have to act, they have to do something good to deserve heaven, praying is very much enough,, but they need to do more & they need to be closer to Allah, they need to understand thei religion & understand that the look itself isn’t enough.
Ican’t point to a woman & say this’s a muslim woman just because she’s covering her hair, what about the heart & does she have the Islamic manners?

Half of the glass still full

Muna Abdelghny,
an Egytpian singer who stopped singing
& wearing hijab now

Sabreen, an Egyptian Actress wearing hijab lately
& presenting Islamic TV shows

Abeer Sabry,
one of the youngest Actresses
who had a great chances in acting
but she stopped acting & wearing hijab
She’s presenting too Islamic TV shows

Technorati Tags: Hijab, Veil, Muslim women

Images from (Bos w Tol)

Thoughts

Strange thoughts came to my mind today, after reading Wa Salaam

The United States doesn’t really want to solve the middle-eastern conflict

All the clues in this puzzle leads to this result, I know it’s not that simple, but clearly the benifits the USA will get through the continuity of wars in the middle-east is much much more when there’s peace.

- I guess the US wants to prove it’s leadership & because there’s
no USSR anymore, there’ must be another war where the US will prove
it’s power.

- The United States now is proving that it’s the #1 world leader, by controling the world, going to wars with BIG titles like:

DEMOCRACY, WAR AGAINEST TERROR, FREEDOM IRAQ….

- As all the world isn’t blind to see the two standards towards the Arab-Israeli conflict, stil the US doesn’t want to admit it & using the Veto for killing one Israeli soldier (for God’s sake he’s a soldier, expected to be killed in the war) while the Veto disappears when kids are killed like what happened in Qana in Lebanon twice (1996 & 2006).

- The oil in the gulf is every-country’s dream, speacially the US, as we can see there’s American military bases in almost all the Gulf countries, to support the war on terror.

- After the truth appeared,, there was no Total-Distruction weapons in Iraq, as we can see the Iraqis are fighting eachother & hundreds are getting killed,, still the American political changes there can’t handle it,, in fact Iraq was much much better under Saddam’s ruling.

I know I’m not smart, it’s just my stupid thoughts, I’m not into politics that much, but it’s arround me all the time.

Technorati Tags: USA, US, United States

Apology not Accepted

There’s some of us don’t believe in reasons, they can’t accept
apology for mistakes!! But I believe that there’s a reason for
everything & not only for mistakes, there’s a reason for creating
this world, there’s a reason for creating Adam & eve, there’s a
reason for making mistakes, but are they the right ones? that’s what we
should think about, & then we can accept apology or not.

It’s NOT ACCEPTABLE under any codition, to insult God whitch mean in arabic Allah, (and this’s something western people must know,, as they say the muslim’s Allah!!!).
It’s not acceptable at all for all who believe in God, Muslims, Christians, Jewish.
There’s
no many Gods, there’s only one, how we believe in God, that’s the
diffrence between religions, in fact Islam & Christianity &
Judaism have the same basic rules if you really read them carefully,
There’s messengers God sent to people so they can believe in him, God
told us not to: lie, hate, kill, steal, have sex out marriage, God told
us to respect eachother & to forgive & even there’s the way to
punish the one who made what God forbids & we all know that there’s
the day when we all stand in front of God & the good ones will go
to Heaven & bad ones will go to hell,, it’s all in the 3
religions!!! Misapplying our religions rules (applys on the three
relegions) is the reason for that evil in our world.

How could we talk about eachother’s God as he’s another one than the one we believe in???
SIMPLY,
God (Allah) means in any relegion (THE ONE WHO CREATED US) how could
anyone think that freedom of speach means being irrespectable to the
one who created us, the one who gave u that tounge you’re talking with
& now you’re talking nonesese about him!! the one who gave you eyes
& you’re not reading what God said??!!!
And if we assumed that you don’t even believe in God,,, that doesn’t give you the right to isult other’s believes.

For
those who’re writing & insulting other’s believes,,, to those
bloggers who thought that being  Anonymous is the best chance to talk
nonesense, I say…

Here’s a case when apology IS NOT ACCEPTABLE

this post was in my other blog,, wrote it after I found some arabic blogs insulting God,, talkin with no respect at all about religions & also some english blogs was taalking about (muslim’s Allah), that really bothered me alot
I know such people won’t apologize, to me or anyone, but I needed to tell them that.

Wanna Talk Loud

Well..
I been emotional in my last post…
I have to explain that.
I’m a muslim, yet not a good one, my life been a mess for while, though it was a good one in the begining.
Here I should point to my husband, as hemessed in his life a lot too & yet he’s not a good muslim either, he been in the US in his chiledhood & later when he had his masters from there.
After getting married, I felt the need to find my way, I felt lost & confused about my life, I couldn’t decide what I’m gonna be, I left my work & I’m a house-wife now, don’t have kids, don’t have an aim for my life (that’s what i feel).
Egypt is a muslim country, but I hate to go out to the streets, as I see many muslim girls acting badly,,, really badly, sometimes I feel that I don’t belong to this society.
I had a lot of blogs,, everyone has an aim, one was to show the world that arabs aren’t that bad,, one was in arabic aiming the muslim girls in egypt & the arab world, as they were effected too much with the western ideals,, without having a prepared brains to think about it in the right way, & this one was for feminin purposes,, which is gonna change now.
I been searching for people who’re linking to my blogs, I found Wa Salaam blog, where I started to discover more, then I found Izzy Mo’s Blog & many more where I felt that I found my way,, in fact my way been in front of me I thought about it a lot,, but I didn’t find any encouragement.
Later , I decided to do all the prayers as i used in the past, surprisely my husband seems to feel that too when i told him that i need to pray & never forget about one prayer,, I found him started to pray too!!! unexpected to me,, thought we used to talk about Islam & discuss a lot about it but our devil (Shitan) was stronger than us.

I’d love to talk & talk & talk,, but I won’t be able to tell you how much I appreciate every single word I read in your blogs, ( I mean muslim blogs around the world ), even if my english hepled me, I guess words won’t be able to show you how much I’m happy to find you & how much you’ll help me to save my life.
I just wish that I can be a little stronger like you & ask Allah al-thabat (I don’t know it’s meaning in english).

 

The image belongs to Mumin Designs , it says Alhamdulillah (Thnks God) repeated in a very artirstc way